Friday, May 10, 2013

Long Distance Relationship Quotes Part 2

No distance changes who is worth your love.

People ask why I try so hard... why I miss those night outs with my friends... why I bother to research about the fastest internet connection... why I consciously avoid all those beautiful women in the city... the answer is easy... Love.

Distance is a chance to know each other deeper... to see each other beyond the physical... and to know for sure just how much we are capable of loving without even when we can't touch the person we love.

Love is a magical bridge that connects two hearts no matter how far apart.

Absence makes two hearts grow stronger and distance is nothing but a test if two people will meet at the end of the load journey.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

How to Manage a Long Distance Relationship

Here are 5 tips on How to Manage a Long Distance Relationship from those that have been through or are still going through a long distance relationship.

Sheila Reise

Long distance relationship with his High school boyfriend. They are now married with 3 kids.
It starts with you. 
Be secure enough to trust him fully and know that whatever it is he decides to do while he is away, there's nothing you can do about it. So relax and love him the way you know how from a distance.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Long Distance Relationship Birthday Gifts

Here are some ideas for long distance relationship birthday gifts. Birthday gifts are great devices to strengthen the bond between you and your boyfriend. Choose gifts that:
  • will remind him of you
  • something he sees or uses constantly
  • something that speaks about you or represents you or has a characteristics that reflect you
  • something he can bring anywhere
Click here for more ideas on long distance relationship gifts.

Here are some more ideas on what you can give your partner who are far from you on their birthday.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Tips on How to Cope with Long Distance Relationships

Here are some more tips on how to cope with long distance relationships. We came out with our first set of tips couple of weeks back. Click here if you want to read about that.

This is a series and we will come out with more tips in the future so keep on coming back.

Sleep together

Although cyber sex is very much an option to some couples, this is not about cyber sex.  Turn on the webcam and sleep at the same time. Make sure the computer doesn't go on sleep mode so the two of you can sleep and wake up "beside" each other.

Make videos

Make videos about your life without him. Remember that men are visual creatures. They would rather watch and listen than read. If you make things more visual for him, he will be able to be empathetic about your life and he will become more of a part of your life. He will have a better idea of how things are without him and will not feel so left out.

Read about how you can prepare yourself for a long distance relationship. 

Monday, April 29, 2013

How to Deal with Long Distance Relationships: Text him the right way

One of the most effective ways on how to deal with long distance relationships is to make use of text messages. Although it is one overused device in any kind of relationship, people still don't know how to text the right way to make sure that your partner thinks about you and continues to look forward to seeing you.

Naturally, texting is not all it takes but it is one of the things that you can utilize.

Below is a guideline on how you should text.

1. Remember how you started

One of the best times in a relationship is the beginning, when the two of you were just flirting, when the two of you were still in the chase stage, when you were sure you want each other but not sure how the other feels, it made you feel restless and made you do thing that would attract the other.

Bring back those times. Flirt... flirt to death... flirt like you have never flirted before. Bring your A game. Whatever it is that you did in the beginning worked because your are now in a relationship so do it again but do it better.

Assume he is not yet committed to you and that you're still seducing him. Assume you have a lot of competition (and you do) and you need to 1 up them.

Thursday, April 18, 2013

How to Manage a Long Distance Relationship: Be Realistic

Knowing how to manage a long distance relationship is a process but the most effective way on how to do it is by being realistic. One of the most fatal mistakes couples tend to commit is the resolve that nothing will change in the relationship. Well, things will change and some of the aspects of the relationship just might change for the worse.

However, keep in mind that just because things are going to change doesn’t mean love is going to be lost. You need to closely re-examine yourself and your relationship if you have any hope of surviving the distance. Problems will most likely arise you never would have anticipated and facets of your personality and the nature of your relationship will dictate

That means one thing, if you want to know how to manage a long distance relationship, know yourself.

Click here to know how best to manage fights when you are in a long distance relationship. 

Face your weaknesses

This is not the time to deny what you really are capable of doing or not capable of doing. Know what are your flaws that you need to work on. Are you the kind of person who always needs someone to talk with? Are you weak when it comes to women making advances? Do you like sex a lot? Are you the kind that needs to be taken care of? The more you are aware of your weaknesses, the more you can prepare for it. Once you know what your needs are, then you can set up ways on how you two can work on it.


Monday, April 15, 2013

How to deal with long distance relationships: Fidelity

When couples discuss how to deal with long distance relationships, the issue of fidelity is usually left out. Somehow, one or both assume that it's a given. There is a promise of fidelity.

The worst thing a couple can do is the deny the fact that it will most likely happen. Yes, you heard me. It will most likely happen. That’s why you need to talk about it. 

What is considered infidelity?

I have non judgment on how couples make their relationship work. I know of a couple where the guy was allowed a list of women he is allowed to sleep with and the list isn’t filled with celebrity or unhaveable girls. I have always believed that different people have different beliefs and different sets of values. For as long as you can look in the mirror at the end of day and be okay with it, that’s fine for me.

In this case, different couples have different views on what may be considered infidelity. To some, flirting is infidelity. To others, emotional connection with someone else is worse than having sex. To a few, it’s not infidelity if one consents to the other having sex.

When you are apart, there is a greater chance of infidelity happening so make sure you both are clear on what may be considered an infidelity.